The Olympics is at the half-way stage and I can’t drag myself away from the television. I love watching almost all the sports – even weightlifting, gymnastics, cycling and rowing. (Okay, not all. I can’t get into fencing, shooting and handball.)
What I have found most interesting is the emotional reactions of the athletes after the result. Some are in tears of elation, others tears of frustration and anguish and still others almost can’t control their joy. It was really difficult not to have a little empathic tear when the British female rowers balled their eyes out as their flag was raised at their medal ceremony.
Many of them are emotional because they feel they have either met or let down the expectations of their support group. Emily Seebolm is one that comes to mind. “I have let my parents down” she said. (I’m sure her parents had no such thoughts but were possibly sad for her knowing how much it meant to her). Another standout was the sprinter (not sure where he was from) who came 7th in the first heat of the 100m and was eliminated…after having done a personal best. Can’t be unhappy with that!
And then there was Rebecca Wilson’s comment when commentating on the swimming. “This is something I will tell my children and grandchildren about. Your mum was there.”
Everyone has a conscious or subconscious purpose at the Olympics. For some, it’s to feel better about themselves, to be more ‘lovable’. (Reminds me of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’ comments – “there are only two true emotions – fear and love”.) For others, it’s just an experience in the journey of life.
One thing is for sure – those that aren’t conscious about what it is about for them, are destined to be at least surprised, if not shocked.
And so it is with finances and investing. Far too often, people don’t know why they are doing what they are doing. They are being swept along with the tide. So when they get ‘beached’, they will often experience fear.
Before settling on any financial strategy, make sure you know why you’re doing what you’re doing and what you are specifically trying to achieve. Be clear about your ‘deep motivators’ and goals and you’ll find the selection of strategies much easier.
If you are interested in finding out more please contact Melissa Oliver on 02 8908 5300 or info@sentinelwealth.com.au.
